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Scams bam no thank you ma’am

Merry meet all,

November, in my opinion, is an extension of October’s magic. A bird just landed on the cedar tree branch outside my window. It is around 3:30 in the afternoon. The sky is still blue. It gets dark early here. It’s my birthday on the 27th. Instead of feeling excited, I am more like thinking that it used to be fun getting older. Now I am and I don’t even want to think about it. 

I’m sipping a hawthorn cordial. Lovely drink, really. This post is about scams. I recently fell victim to yet another scam. I really want to warn you all to be so careful. There are so many of them out there. The scams can be so unpleasant to deal with. At first they are so nice and everything seems so innocuous. You pay for a dress or a book online. Then the evil face of the scam reveals its true self. You never know till it hits you. 

I even get texts from the evil people running the scam they would offer me money. They try to copy and look just like a real email from Canada Post, Canada Revenue Agency, Royal Bank of Canada or Canadian Tire. The reality is those genuine organizations would never ask such things from you like your personal banking information and such. I once fell for the scam and had to renew my bank card. It was such a pain. 

The scam I had trouble is was when I bought a cape from Ubocae. They are the worst scam EVER. Run from them, don’t walk. I give someone money, I damn well expect to receive what I pay for. They had the nerve to send me a ring. A ring. I paid for a beautiful purple cape. Then it all began. They sent weird confusing emails. I had to push them into sending the tracking number. Then I got these emails like about when the item would be sent, and I could finally see two weeks later the item was sent. They told me some crap excuse that the ring was an early gift. Yeah sure and I am Mary Poppins. The item would be sent later if I was patient. They sent me a tracking number which was the tracking number for the ring. Then I pushed for a refund. Keep in mind we’re dealing with a company in Southeast Asia. It is no surprise I am having a hard time. They asked if I wanted a partial refund then asked me if I wanted a 70% refund. I said yes and then they sent me a few days later a second email asking me if I wanted a 70% refund. I think the emails are computer generated. That may be why there is the lack of positive communication. So no cape and no refund. I am never ordering from them again or ordering from anywhere outside North America again. I am researching the company up, down and all around first. 

I have new standards for ordering online now. The company has to one I am already familiar with and have had positive results in the past with. The company has to be genuine and honest. The company has to offer reviews of their products, offer a tracking number openly, and have a good transparency to them. I will only buy from within North America now. Total transparency. 

I encourage you all to exercise the same caution with your own online purchasing. It save you grief, not having to renew your bank cards, and time and your precious money. I really loved that purple cape. Instead I got a ring which I threw away. I couldn’t even sell it at a  pawn shop. I will never get my money back from that unreal company. I just never want to have anything to do with them again. I doubt I can get the real purple cape I paid for now. I am sure no other store sells it and I don’t know if I can trust an online company now. The company Ubocae also has bad reviews online as well. I am not surprised. 

The online stores that I still trust are Amazon (though not lately much), Killstar, Holy Clothing, and Chapters. I will continue to deal with them and that’s pretty much it. I hope you all never have a nasty experience like the one I had. I wish you all the best and please be careful. It is your time and money. Value it. 

Blessings, Spiderwitch

 

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The Zozo Phenomenon

Merry meet all,

I just read the book The Zozo Phenomenon. It was a very good book if not far fetched in parts. I don’t believe all the hype but it was a good book overall. I do believe that people can convince themselves that something exists.There is a fine line between what is real and what is fake. In one section of the book during a paranormal investigation, the wife of Darren Evans enters the house and claims to be sexually assaulted by Zozo. She is not dressed well but seems oddly calm, acting like she is drugged even ( she probably was) and her husband takes it very calmly. Excuse me, if my husband sees me or hears me say I was sexually assaulted, I would expect him to be behaving way more damn concerned. Instead, he continues with the investigation with Ghost Adventures.  I would divorce him on the spot. He just goes outside and finds her at a hotel and leaves her there. What an asshole! That right there tells me it was fake. She desperately wanted attention. If I was assaulted by a far fetched demon no less, I would expect more done about it and I would not be behaving that calmly. 

The power of suggestion is powerful. I suspect that is what is occurring here in the book. I don’t believe the Slender Man exists either. People start a story and it goes viral. But on the other hand, I have had actual paranormal things happen to me. But I never looked for it or forced it to happen. It just did. I had no control over it. But people do have control over what they choose to believe exists. I have used ouija boards and nothing happened- at all. That may be because I was alone. I am sure the boards function better with two people. So no a demon didn’t pop out and possess me. 

I am skeptical that that demon exists. The people who want to believe he is real search for any explanation or story that he exists and then that should make it so that it does. Sheesh. If anyone has a genuine occurrence that they never forced to occur, then yeah I would believe that person. 

I know a guy who is a Witch and has discussed demonic possession with a priest. The priest told him nine times out of ten, the person believing themselves to be possessed are instead dealing with mental illness. That is a more  logical explanation. I do believe in the paranormal but I also believe in being practical and logical. First you rule out all the plausible causes, then when you can’t explain it and you are sure, then you go deeper and accept the paranormal explanation. 

It was a good entertaining read. That is all. I don’t regret reading it but I don’t believe it. It is fake , the whole thing. A cry for attention. There is something to the maxim seeing is believing. A lot of spooky things have happened to me that I never forced or sought out. they just did. An editor who read the book Dracul by Dacre Stoker claimed that Mina and Jonathan Harker were real people, acquaintances of Bram Stoker. People are so eager to believe in anything that they will accept anything. He believed that Dracula existed. He is a fictional character, nothing more, based on the actual historical figure Vlad Tepes. 

To demonstrate my skepticism even more, I have bad news. The publishing company J Ellington Ashton Press is a scam. I am now not having my horror novel published with them. 

This is what convinced me it was a scam all along:

The editor who encouraged me to sing on has zero ratings and reviews on Amazon- no ratings mean no sales
They were terrified of deadlines A First
Signed me on too fast- the same day they got my partial
Praised me up
I couldn’t google or find the editor anywhere online even on Facebook
I was told it would be too hard for her to be in touch with me from Australia- it takes seconds to send an email
I had a fishy feeling about them
I had a fishy feeling about being told it would hard for her to be in touch or her constant assurance she was working on it
Their website looks like shit
Their ratings and reviews on Amazon are bad
They have zero web presence
Told me I would be shelved- my book would be shelved next to other famous authors
The editor constantly name dropped He is full of shit
I was on bated breath waiting for them to ask me for money
In order for you to avoid this happening to you, do your research first. That will save you heartbreak. And you want to be happy right? And you want to be with a legit company right? Right. If publishing is your goal, then go for it but be careful.! Scams are everywhere these days. It is terrible that a publishing company will prey on gullible authors and wreak havoc with their dreams but the scammers are out there. 
Now don’t get me wrong. I love watching Ghost Adventures as much as the next person. I am not writing this to sprinkle hate confetti. I do watch the show. But I just maintain a healthy dose of skepticism. I don’t agree with the way they bash witchcraft not knowing enough about it, But I just brush that aside because my ability see ghosts leaves me feeling quite isolated. I can’t just stop being what I am. I am what I am. I accept it but I bear the mantle for it. I don’t boast or act proud or show off. I think that with an ability like mine, I guess you have to pay the price. The guys on that show validate it for me because they make it cool and acceptable. It makes me feel less alone. 
We live in a society that pushes conformity. I say never be afraid to stand out and be true to yourself. 
The paranormal is now more accepted than it was say 20 years ago. I do believe though there are more ghosts, spirits. demons out now than there ever were before. I also know that we have more ghost hunting tools on the market. I never knew those tools existed. I just used my own natural clairvoyant senses to detect ghosts. When I do encounter a spirit it never sticks around for me to find out what it wants. How can I help it that way? Maybe with more ghost hunting tools, I will be able to know what they want. Let’s hope. The future seems spooky. I believe something is coming, something big. And I think that the spirits all know what that will be and are waiting for us mere mortal to figure it out. Let’s do just that before it is too late. This pandemic is only the beginning. 
Blessings, Spiderwitch

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